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Sex and Horror

Wednesday, May 26th, 2010

Watching horror movies to get your woman aroused is a 70’s thing. It’s not really commonplace anymore. Thinking of this reminds me when Kelso would take jackie to a horror movie and she would get scared and snuggle up to him and he would have a coy”I Scored” look on his face. You can do the same too.

Women are a little more squeamish then men when it comes to horror flicks, especially when there is something very scary like a strong suspense. When you don’t know what will leap at you from around the corner, this is when you can shine. The psychology behind why horror movies sexually arouse women is because they are genuinely scared. For this to take full effect however you ned to put it in the appropriate setting. Make sure it’s a big screen, late at night. Even better, watch a horror movie during a thunderstorm. If she is truly frightened, she will snuggle up to you, grab onto your arm and may even duck her head into your chest at the really scary parts.

She gets aroused by being so close to you. Instinctually, you probably secrete pheromones and she is very attracted to this, from you being the protector and her being the frail women. This dates way back to the caveman days. When you start to rub her shoulders, thinks does 2 things. First it comforts her, secondly it gives her mind something to focus on.

I think that the main reason that women get aroused during horror movies is because they try to distract themselves from what is happening and the only thing available around them to get their minds away from fear is you! This means that all their senses are focused on you so now is the perfect time to drop your subtle signals.

She will be so sensitive to your touch, take this opportunity to rub her arms, and you can subtly move to her tits. Rub the very edge and pretend like you don;t really know where your hand is. She will be getting wet in her panties at this time. You can rows her body cues when she is getting really aroused by the way she will press up against you even harder and she may even moan a little bit. Now is your change to move in again, start with a kiss a very tender kiss, stroke her skin and before you know it, you’ll subtly slip into a sexually passionate encounter and she will be all over you.

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Why Women Love your Ejaculate (or Not!)

Thursday, May 20th, 2010

naughty secretsWhy do women love cum? Do we actually care? Not likely. There is something so erotic about women who love drinking our oozing juices. They look at us with sticky faces and crave even more. It makes a pocket pussy seem so boring.

Why do they do that? Because just as it’s our erotic fantasy to have a lady succumb to our sexual power, it’s their fantasy to be submissive to a dominant man. Good thing or fantasies fall in line. When a woman begs you for your juices, she wants it, it’s a deep dark fantasy of hers.

Most of this naughty urges spawn from watching porn. You got it right guys, the ladies love porno too. They watch the porn and see how much fun the women are having and a part of them wants to be a hot desired slut too. Even women get bored with the regular sex lives of missionary and doggie style positions. Sometimes they just want to be nasty. It fulfills a secret erotic fantasy role.

It fits along the lines of girls kissing girls – we don’t particularly like it, or harbor deep rooted lesbian tendencies (which some would believe) but rather it’s for attention. same reason the women pretend to like ejaculate – it’s for attention. We are put on a pedestal. It’s also similar to the “wife & mistress” comparison. The guy does things with his mistress that we would never do with his wife! Sometimes, it’s fun to be the mistress for a night instead of the wife. taking about a shift in the bedroom! Variety is the spice of life – and spices up your bedroom too.

Many women won’t openly admit it, but it’s their little secret. Now that you know the women’s secret, rest assured she love to be kinky. So go ahead, intimate kinky sex acts, So the next time that a lady is craving your cum, you can be fulfilled knowing that she really want it, you are fulfilling her urges for nasty, dirty sex.

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Tips on Tenderness

Monday, January 4th, 2010

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Here is an article on what to do when you have your real woman at your side. Despite all the porn you watch and things you see on the internet and on TV, women like tenderness. not all the time, but they do need tender moments. All the hair pulling and ass slapping is fun, but they need to know that you love them and care for them. Here is a few tips on tenderness:

1.) Rub her shoulders.
The erotic massage i hot and passionate, you usually dive for her clit or nipples – right? Take a moment and before you begin foreplay, rub her shoulders a little but slowly, tenderly. kiss her shoulders, run her arms, caress her. It’s very easy for you to do, it only takes about 30 seconds and it will make her feel tingly and inviting and of course, loved.

2.) Kiss her and hold her face.
When women watch chick flicks and see a love scene, it always starts with the guy holding her face. It’s a very intimate act, an emotional act. It shows that you are attentive to her needs and her as a person. Hold her cheeks and kiss her slowly, hold her head delicately in your hands, rub your fingers through her hair.

3.) Give her flowers.
You don’t need to giver her a huge batch of expensive roses. here’s a little secret for you: Women like any flowers. Give her a small bunch of daises and she will love it. It’s a simple inexpensive gesture that leaves a lasting impression. Give her flowers for no reason at all, just because you care.

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Lesbian Titty Tease

Wednesday, December 16th, 2009

This video clip is like bailey’s in your coffee. It’s wake you up and give you a tingly feeling in your tummy. It’s also something different. Sure you can watch lesbians dildoing their pussies, lesbians grinding, kissing, fucking, sucking and pretty much anything else, but a titty tease is just a little different. It might not be the most satisfying thing you’ve ever seen, maybe it will be but at least it will be a little different. That’s what we strive to do at EasyArousal.com, we like to bring you the best of different porn and the easiest ways to get it.

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How to Bag a Bed Buddy

Wednesday, September 30th, 2009

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Who loves causal sex? No strings attached, casual just plain fun sex? Let me tell you about the best way to get that, it’s called a bed buddy. Guys, there ARE girls out there who want a bed buddy. I am a woman’s writing this and let me tell you that i could not imagine life without a bed buddy and here is how to get her on your side.

I am a professional woman. I would never be suspected of having a bed buddy, so this brings me to the first point. Secrecy. very important that you never brag or tell anyone about her. She is you little secret. often she has a boyfriend, or they come and go and you remain always there in the shadows. Men can never know about the bed buddy because it will ruin her reputation. She will also never get a boyfriend if they find out about you so you have to keep quiet.

Once you’ve mastered secrecy, you have to be her friend. It doesn’t hurt if you’re good looking either! My bed buddy is hot, nit as hot as dome of my boyfriends are but he is GOOD. That brings me to the next point. technique is key. Read very sex tip, buy every maxim (with sex tip articles of course) and learn until you can’t learn anymore. Study woman’s anatomy like it;s your university SAT test Know her inside and out (quite literally!) If you can please her perfectly, you will be like her sex toy, hence bed buddy. My bed buddy can do things to me that no boyfriend ever did before. this is why I keep going back. he is damn good!

Next, you have to be able to keep that emotional distance. I say this because some men can;t do ut. If you;re the type of guy who gets plagued by jealousy, stay away or learn how to control your emotions. You can never ask about her boyfriends, never take her for dinner, don’t buy her anything (except sex toys to use together). You are not dating her and you never will be so make sure that you 2 live separate lives. get yourself a girlfriend and don’t go on and on about he because she won;t care, All you two have is sex.

This brings me to my next point. make your rendezvous about sex only. I said earlier that you have to be friends, but this is only first, When you meet and you hang out for the first few times, once you’ve agreed to be bed buddies, never hang out with her again without having sex. Me and my guy will hang out and watch TV to let the excitement build. up then we have sex then I leave. That’s it.

When you want to ask er to be your bed buddy, do it after sex. When you’ve thoughlly pleased her, ask her to be your bed buddy, there is no specific formula to doing this, she may even ask you. I can’t tell you exactly what to say, you have to be suave but not slimy or dating suave. If you’re smart enough, you’ll figure it out. If she faked her orgasm, she’ll definitely never agree so make sure that you have her a real string orgasm. Sex toys always help.

It’s not that hard but you have to have the right personality blend to be a comparable sex buddy, not everyman can the be sex buddy of every woman so keep trying maybe one day you’ll get lucky. You can’t force it, there needs to be prefect blend of personality types and secrecy so it’s a delicate blend but maybe one day, you’ll find your perfect bed buddy lady.

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What Crotchless Panties can do for You

Friday, September 11th, 2009

If you want to get her to wear something sexy for you, try with the simple and work your way up – literally.
If you buy her some crotchless panties, this is what might happen:

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She will wear them because you bought them and unlike some racy little teddy, she won’t feel so strange because she wears them every day, it’s underwear so there is no feelings of strangeness.

Next, if they’re crotchless and you bought them for her, she’ll know that you are going to want to take a few licks in between the folds of material into her folds so there won;’t be any surprises there. One thing that’s very good about crotchless is that if she has some pubic hair stubble then she won’t have to worry about being insecure in font of you because it’s covered. It seems like crotchless panties are a win-win situation for both of you!

You can take it a step further and get vibrating panties. It’s the same as crotchless but there is a little pouch sewn in the hold a Vibrating bullet. You can have sex with her through the crotchless opening while the vibrating bullet hits her hot spot, all hands free so she can have her arms available for changing positions or doing whatever you want her to do. The vibrating bullet can come our so the regular pair of panties an be worn anytime. It can be your naughty little secret.

Try this because getting some lingerie ensemble that she’s not used to wearing. After she realizes how fun crotchless panties are, she will be more on to the idea of having sex while wearing the, and she might even move to wearing more risque lingerie for you.

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Start at the Toes.

Monday, August 10th, 2009

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A woman’s feet are more then just a way to get around adorned with pretty painted nails. They are to cherished and pampered. From a ladies perspective, when you pay attention to her feet, it means that you being sub servant to her, it sort of a sign of worship. Feet are dirty and if you can pay attention to the dirty feet, it means that you really want us, you’ll do anything to get us and if pampering our dirty feet is one of the things you will do, it makes us more willing to do what you want us to do later! If you catch my drift here, it means your chances for a blow job are increased. I suppose you can compare a penis to feet. You think our feet are dirty, we think your penis is dirty. If you suck on our toes, we’ll suck on your penis. It’s comparable.

A mistake that men make is assuming that us sucking on your penis is similar to you sucking on our clitoris. This is very untrue, although we like clitoral stimulation, the truth is that you men can;t please our clit as good as we can. the secret is that a vibrating egg will bring us to orgasm in seconds, we can even manipulate our own clitoris and press on it the way we need and bring ourselves to orgasm in seconds. When men suck on a clit, they are pleasing themselves. Sure we like it but it’s not that great.

That’s why a foot run or toe sucking will win us over easier and better then a clit sucking. So you now will wonder how to play with the feet. First if all tickling is a no-no. Our brothers tickle our feet, therefore it’s not a erotic thing. It will kill the mood. Think circles. The best way to please our feet is to move your thumb in circles all over. Soft but firm slow circles. I think that in s subliminal way, it makes us think of what you will do to your clitoris. We love circles on the clit and circles on the foot will get us in the mood for sex.

Secondly, pay attention to each little detail. Don’t just rub quickly all over, make it count. Pretend that you’re examining the foot, however don’t stare at it oddly because some women are a little self conscious about the feet. Rub each toe, kiss the arch, kiss the top, massage the ankles. Think slow and sensual and we’ll be in your bed in no time at all. I’m not suggesting to become a crazy foot fetish fanatic but you need to pay some attention to our feet.

You can also do some research on foot reflexology, it’s a science that studies the pressure points in the feet and you’ll be pleasantly surprised to know that some pressure points release blood flow in the pelvic areas which in turn activates our sex urge and makes us horny. I think there is a pressure point tn the bottom of the ball of the foot, in the middle right where the ball ends and the arch begins. Put pressure there and hold it. The learn up to kiss the lips while you keep pressure on that point, It’s like pressing a button for pleasure. That’s the best hot spot on a woman’s foot but there are more too so don;t just stop there, get your research in and we’ll hop in your lap in no time at all!