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How to Bag a Bed Buddy

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Who loves causal sex? No strings attached, casual just plain fun sex? Let me tell you about the best way to get that, it’s called a bed buddy. Guys, there ARE girls out there who want a bed buddy. I am a woman’s writing this and let me tell you that i could not imagine life without a bed buddy and here is how to get her on your side.

I am a professional woman. I would never be suspected of having a bed buddy, so this brings me to the first point. Secrecy. very important that you never brag or tell anyone about her. She is you little secret. often she has a boyfriend, or they come and go and you remain always there in the shadows. Men can never know about the bed buddy because it will ruin her reputation. She will also never get a boyfriend if they find out about you so you have to keep quiet.

Once you’ve mastered secrecy, you have to be her friend. It doesn’t hurt if you’re good looking either! My bed buddy is hot, nit as hot as dome of my boyfriends are but he is GOOD. That brings me to the next point. technique is key. Read very sex tip, buy every maxim (with sex tip articles of course) and learn until you can’t learn anymore. Study woman’s anatomy like it;s your university SAT test Know her inside and out (quite literally!) If you can please her perfectly, you will be like her sex toy, hence bed buddy. My bed buddy can do things to me that no boyfriend ever did before. this is why I keep going back. he is damn good!

Next, you have to be able to keep that emotional distance. I say this because some men can;t do ut. If you;re the type of guy who gets plagued by jealousy, stay away or learn how to control your emotions. You can never ask about her boyfriends, never take her for dinner, don’t buy her anything (except sex toys to use together). You are not dating her and you never will be so make sure that you 2 live separate lives. get yourself a girlfriend and don’t go on and on about he because she won;t care, All you two have is sex.

This brings me to my next point. make your rendezvous about sex only. I said earlier that you have to be friends, but this is only first, When you meet and you hang out for the first few times, once you’ve agreed to be bed buddies, never hang out with her again without having sex. Me and my guy will hang out and watch TV to let the excitement build. up then we have sex then I leave. That’s it.

When you want to ask er to be your bed buddy, do it after sex. When you’ve thoughlly pleased her, ask her to be your bed buddy, there is no specific formula to doing this, she may even ask you. I can’t tell you exactly what to say, you have to be suave but not slimy or dating suave. If you’re smart enough, you’ll figure it out. If she faked her orgasm, she’ll definitely never agree so make sure that you have her a real string orgasm. Sex toys always help.

It’s not that hard but you have to have the right personality blend to be a comparable sex buddy, not everyman can the be sex buddy of every woman so keep trying maybe one day you’ll get lucky. You can’t force it, there needs to be prefect blend of personality types and secrecy so it’s a delicate blend but maybe one day, you’ll find your perfect bed buddy lady.